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How to File for Divorce in New Jersey

How to File for Divorce in New Jersey: A Step-by-Step Guide

Filling for divorce is never an easy decision. For many people, it marks the end of a deeply personal chapter and the beginning of significant legal, financial, and emotional change. Understanding how the divorce process works in New Jersey can help reduce uncertainty and allow you to move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

This basic guide outlines the basic steps involved in filing for divorce in New Jersey and what to expect along the way.

 

Step 1: Meet New Jersey’s Residency Requirement

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Before filing for divorce in New Jersey, at least one spouse must have lived in the state for at least one year prior to filing.

There is one exception: if the divorce is based on adultery, there is no minimum residency requirement as long as the adultery occurred in New Jersey.

 

Step 2: Choose the Appropriate Grounds for Divorce          

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New Jersey allows both no-fault and fault-based divorces.

No-Fault Divorce

The most common option is irreconcilable differences, which requires that:

  • The marriage has been broken for at least six months
  • There is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation

No-fault divorces typically involve less conflict and are often resolved more efficiently.

Fault-Based Divorce

New Jersey also recognizes fault grounds, including:

  • Adultery
  • Extreme cruelty
  • Desertion
  • Addiction
  • Institutionalization
  • Deviant sexual conduct

While fault grounds do not usually impact property division or custody, it may be relevant in limited circumstances. An experienced attorney can help determine whether fault grounds are appropriate in your case

 

Step 3: Prepare and File the Divorce Paperwork

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To begin the divorce process, the filing spouse (the plaintiff) must submit a Complaint for Divorce with the Family Division of the Superior Court in the county where either spouse lives.

Additional required documents typically include:

  • Summons
  • Certification of Verification and Non-Collusion
  • Confidential Litigant Information Sheet
  • Family Part Case Information Statement
  • Insurance and financial disclosures

New Jersey allows filing:

  • Electronically through the Judiciary Electronic Document Submission (JEDS) system
  • In person at the courthouse
  • By mail

A filing fee is required, with additional fees if custody or parenting time is requested. Fee waivers may be available for qualifying individuals.

 

Step 4: Serve the Divorce Papers

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After filing, the divorce complaint must be served on the other spouse within 60 days. Service may be completed through:

  • The county sheriff
  • A private process server

Once service is complete, proof must be filed with the court.

The responding spouse (the defendant) then has 35 days to file an Answer or Counterclaim.

 

Step 5: Address Key Divorce Issues

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During the divorce process, spouses must resolve several legal issues, including:

  • Property and debt division
    New Jersey follows equitable distribution, meaning marital assets are divided fairly, not necessarily equally.
  • Alimony
    The court considers factors such as the length of the marriage, income, earning capacity, and lifestyle.
  • Child custody and parenting time
    Decisions are based on the best interests of the child, with a focus on stability, safety, and co-parenting ability.
  • Child support
    Support is calculated using New Jersey’s Child Support Guidelines, with adjustments based on individual circumstances.

Many cases resolve through mediation or arbitration, avoiding the need for trial.

 

Step 6: Mediation, Arbitration, or Trial

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New Jersey courts strongly encourage alternative dispute resolution, including mediation and settlement conferences. These options allow spouses to retain more control over outcomes and often reduce time, cost, and conflict.

If an agreement cannot be reached, the case may proceed to trial, where a judge will make final decisions on unresolved issues.

 

Step 7: Final Judgment of Divorce

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Once all matters are resolved, the court will issue a Final Judgment of Divorce. This legally ends the marriage and sets forth the terms regarding finances, custody, and support.

After the judgment is entered, both parties must comply with its terms.

 

Do You Need a Divorce Attorney in New Jersey?

While it is possible to file for divorce without an attorney, divorce often involves complex legal and financial consequences. An experienced New Jersey divorce attorney can help you:

  • Understand your rights and obligations
  • Avoid costly mistakes
  • Protect your financial future
  • Advocate for your children’s best interests

 

Get Guidance Before You File

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If you are considering divorce in New Jersey, you do not have to navigate the process alone. Thoughtful planning and experienced legal guidance can make a significant difference in both the process and the outcome.

Our New Jersey divorce attorneys are available to discuss your options and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Contact us through our confidential contact form or call (908) 645-1000 to schedule a consultation.

 

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